aphasiac wrote:
abdwef wrote:
At this point, my strategy consists of "Ask her out for lunch, and forget about trying to impress her family". But one thing this forum, along with my first year of university has taught me, is that if you fail to plan, then you plan to fail.
There's your problem; with dating and women, you don't plan, you just go it. Act on instinct and follow your heart, stop over thinking things. Also if you insist on having such a strict set of "rules" for who you date, you're going to be alone forever - seriously, try and be a bit more open-minded..jees..
Anyway what's the latest; did you ask her out yet?
Women will throw all sorts of curveballs at you. And for no logical reason.
In fact, they often screw your plans up on purpose (or even just on a whim for
no apparent reason). And they will say things without even thinking about it.
Logic and women don't go hand in hand. They are a walking contradiction.
I had one Japanese girl complain to me constantly about how she hasn't had
any boyfriends during her year-long stay in America.
She kept giving me these looks that day and I suggested maybe we could visit her apartment (which was less than 10 minutes away) for a bit.
She immediately puts up a front and talks about "Oh. I don't allow men in my room. I only allow women to visit my room.".
Pfft...no wonder she doesn't have any boyfriends....
Women will just say whatever is convenient for them, even if it has no logical basis.
Here's some advice: if there are any other attractive Korean girls that like you, go ahead and date them. Your goal should be to let everyone see you in public (or hear about you). When the girl sees that you're dating someone else, then she might get jealous and go after you. If you're lucky, they'll be other girls going after you. Does that make any sense at all? Hell no. Does it work? Absolutely... :-)
Also, you'd be surprised how many of these "I only want what other people have" girls there are out there. Of course, once they get you, they will probably dump you soon after since they're only interested in stealing other people's boyfriends....Yeah...girls don't make sense.....
Good luck........and keep us up-to-date on your status (even if it's bad news).
Last edited by chamcham (2010 April 14, 1:56 pm)
