louiserouse
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From: tokyo
Registered: 2008-08-05
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Hey,
My Japanese is getting pretty good recently and I'm thinking about getting a job here after finishing studying. The only thing is, my keigo sucks!
I think, like a lot of people, I've learnt spoken Japanese mainly through friends... so my verb endings are always plain form.
Intellectually I know the proper desu / masu endings but my L1 brain interferes because I have trouble categorising people into higher social status / outside group - in English you only use language that way to put people close to you or push them away, and the difference between is hardly noticeable.
I come off sounding rude when I talk to older people if we talk for any length of time.
Has anyone fixed this problem in themselves? Are there classes in Tokyo for western foreigners who can't speak keigo?!
I need like a Japanese finishing school I think!
Entirely possible. I didn't really learn keigo until I had passed JLPT 1 and had to start teaching in a program that emphasized it. I could understand a lot of keigo, of course, but I had trouble using it. IMO it's by far the most difficult thing in learning Japanese (yes, even more difficult than kanji). I still don't really have a great active command of keigo, although I can use it a lot better than I used to.
Reading the explanations and situations in Japanese: The Spoken Language is helpful because they provide very detailed explanations of keigo and have many different contexts and situations using it, but the books may be kind of expensive just to get them for that purpose. There are probably books you could get in Japanese that explain it for native speakers that might help as well (or websites). Of course you have to practice it too; sometimes I speak keigo with friends just for fun, but it can be good practice as well.
Last edited by yudantaiteki (2010 February 24, 9:31 pm)
Fuamnach wrote:
I reckon if you get the job first the keigo will take care of itself 
Highly unlikely. Native Japanese people don't pick up keigo naturally; it's orders of magnitude more complicated than formality in Italian (or any western language). Also, if it's a job where they expect you to use keigo, you're not going to get past the interview if you can't do it.
I haven't seen the particular AJATT message you're referring to, but either you're misunderstanding it or khatz is lying/exaggerating/misinformed -- there's no way someone can pick up keigo in one week.
Last edited by yudantaiteki (2010 February 24, 9:09 pm)
Fuamnach
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yudantaiteki wrote:
Fuamnach wrote:
I reckon if you get the job first the keigo will take care of itself 
Highly unlikely. Native Japanese people don't pick up keigo naturally; it's orders of magnitude more complicated than formality in Italian (or any western language). Also, if it's a job where they expect you to use keigo, you're not going to get past the interview if you can't do it.
Yes, Italian would certainly have been easier. But I thought, just like as it may take someone a little longer to learn Japanese itself coz it is "harder" the same would go for its formal language, but it's not impossible to gradually pick up. Just a matter of time.
About not getting past the interview; so how would it work? :S I'm not in Japan so I don't know. Even the natives would have to have prep lessons before going for the interview? I thought if the company is really particular about it, they train you, no problem.
yudantaiteki wrote:
I haven't seen the particular AJATT message you're referring to, but either you're misunderstanding it or khatz is lying/exaggerating/misinformed -- there's no way someone can pick up keigo in one week.
Hence the disclaimer
I can't find that post right now, so for the moment i'd rather you take it as me misunderstanding (don't wanna sully someone's name here!)
Jarvik7
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It's very common to not develop keigo skill even if you have otherwise advanced Japanese. Remember that most Japanese natives cannot speak keigo very well despite being native speakers of normal Japanese. JLPT doesn't test production at all and doesn't really give much focus to testing keigo.
Personally I was in the same boat as the OP. I took first year Japanese in university in Canada, self studied a bit, and then tested directly into 4th and 5th year Japanese in Japan. As a result I completely skipped keigo. I've been improving my polite speech on-the-job since my coworkers are Japanese, but I've been planning on going through some keigo books meant for natives when I get a chance. I'm also planning on taking the BJT.
@avparker: Konbini etc workers don't (generally) speak real keigo, they speak baito-go which is like really basic keigo full of mistakes. --> http://www.amazon.co.jp/その … 4532311535
@Womacks: No, you cannot learn real keigo in a week. You might be able to cram the fundamentals, but you cannot change the way you speak so easily, especially if you're been speaking exclusively in plain form for years.
Last edited by Jarvik7 (2010 February 24, 10:40 pm)
Fuamnach
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danieldesu wrote:
Katsumoto basically said he knew two types of Japanese before coming to Japan, super polite (aka keigo), and ultra informal manga/drama style speech, and that it only took about 2 weeks to pick up more normal, conversational style Japanese.
Okay, this sounds a little more accurate, glad someone has a better memory than me 
Basically my point was to not worry and let exposure sort it out. The main problem is having to change your style of speech when you've been used to a certain style for a while. But since the OP has already studied and understands keigo, if placed in an environment where she hears people speak it more frequently, she in theory should eventually start outputting naturally (unless yudantaiteki is right and she won't get past the interview in the first place :S). And if companies do train people once they get there, even better 
Asriel
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Fuamnach wrote:
And if companies do train people once they get there, even better 
One of my friends who works (ed?) at a fancy 和食 place had to learn a crazy amount of keigo. She's Japanese, so she's obviously got a leg up on us, but she said that they she basically got a handbook of everything she was supposed to say, and when.
According to her, after a week, it came mind-numbingly brainless.
Handbooks/training like this are probably quite rare, but not unheard of.
louiserouse
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From: tokyo
Registered: 2008-08-05
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Wow great responses, thanks everyone.
I have quite a few native English speaker friends who have trouble with keigo, and it looks like we are definitely not alone!
I think practice will help, but in terms of mentality I find it difficult to maintain that polite distance from, say, my professor, after I have gotten to know them.
I talk to my teachers at home on a first-name basis and its very casual... that doesn't mean I don't show respect but English doesn't separate respectfulness through verb endings!
I have real difficulty naturally speaking in a way that shows I am respecting the status / outside group-ness of the person opposite me.
Maybe there is no class that could teach me that and its just going to take time....
Last edited by louiserouse (2010 February 25, 1:11 am)