louischa Wrote:I take back the "jackass", it was out of line. Nevertheless, was you wrote was equally out of line.
You have absolutely no business of insulting people who want to contribute to this forum in good faith. I insulted no one in my original post, and your sarcastic reply was meant to insult and ridicule.
Where is the moderator in this forum? I want this person banned.
Thank you for taking back the 'jackass' remark; in return, I'll take back my sarcasm regarding 'first, second, and third'.
However, you're still doing the same thing: finding issue where there is none and blowing it out of proportion. Your first post was incredibly condescending and was attacking people who had no qualm with you. Your responses to me and others who called you out on your hostility have been equally hostile.
If you, in good faith, were effectively calling everyone stupid and uncultured for suggesting that someone learn to read with more accessible material (not baby books, mind you, but not complex adult literature), then my suggestion that you calm down and examine just what caused the argument from nothing was the suggestion of an enlightened individual.
Also, I was quite serious when I stated that you should reconsider participating in discussions that invite disagreement: if the minor criticism Aikynaro provided caused you to flip like this, you're experience of this forum will be ruined.
Also, just as a tip (literally, just a suggestion, I don't really care), threatening to bring in the mods on a forum over a minor disagreement (trust me, this is minor), especially one where you made the first hostile remark, makes you look extremely bad and can make you look like a troll to the other members of the community.
Personally, the majority of my experience with this forum has been reading only (as evident by my post count), I highly doubt I'd lose much, even if a mod decided to take your side and ban me. I wouldn't try to make a new account or anything, I'd just read the threads that look interesting like normal.
I've seen several threads now where you have contributed positively to this community, including this one, before this whole thing started. It'd be great if you could participate like that without freaking out over something so minor. I mean, it'd be one thing if someone personally insulted you and didn't give any reason as to why they thought you were wrong (though the instant escalation would still have been uncalled for, most likely), but a civil opposition to your ideas does not deserve this response and it's doing no one any service by existing.
Once again, I'll bring up my request that you calmly look over this incident and figure out what happened. If you still feel like your in the right... Well, I guess you should get over it anyways, since this discussion has gone off topic and is helpful to absolutely no one.
Taking my own advice, I'll do my best to avoid making off-topic replies to this thread after this, so have a nice day.
EDIT: (this doesn't count as another post, to me at least)
Just realized that you don't seem to understand what issue was taken regarding your post (the one I originally replied to). I'll ask you to read over it (once again) and see if you can understand why it was interpreted negatively. If you truly had no ill intent in that post, then I'll wholeheartedly apologize for my reaction. However, since I'm not the only one who saw your post as inflammatory, it's clear that there was a mistake on your part that caused the misunderstanding (I'll once again mention that your over all tone, including the way you listed things, seemed very inflammatory). If you felt I misunderstood the intention of your post, you could have simply said so instead of reacting the way you did.
Of course, things happen and, personally, I just want this argument to be resolved, so that we can go back to making positive contributions to the discussion; so, if this whole thing was a misunderstanding, then we can both accept our mistakes and end this.
(back to the no replying thing now)
Edited: 2014-03-28, 4:27 am