qwertyytrewq Wrote:So there's nothing with a person finding younger girls attractive, as long as he doesn't tell anyone, or show anyone?
There is a difference between looking at someone and thinking "hmmm, nice" and acting on your impulse. You can't really blame a 40-year-old man for glancing at a 14-year-old's cleavage, but you can blame him for various activities he can do beyond that.
Acknowledging certain fetishes and dubbing them acceptable will also directly lead to the abuse associated with them. The more people become open about it, the more of a community they will have, the more followers it can get(people who may or may not have had that particular fetish but did not act out on it, etc.), the greater the request for more material, the more material.
Quote:Anecdotal evidence aside, one thing worth mentioning is that males place a much much higher importance on physical appearances (often the sole requirement) than females (who have multiple requirements).
That is totally sexist, btw. It's a vicious cycle, but killing the prejudice can be what kills it. When men are no longer raised with the idea that they should be mindless drones who only care about looks and bootay maybe it will be socially acceptable to be, you know, human.
Quote:Ignoring teenagers for a second, this is why older-man/younger-female relationships are so much more common than older-female/younger-male relationships.
It's not just that males like younger females, younger females also like older men!
Again with the sexist generalisations. Ugh.
There is a variety of reasons why a young female would go with an older man(obviously, it depends on the age gap). Let's be honest here, the main reason why the 20+year gaps don't matter is for financial reasons, though it's not unheard of for men to be the gold-digger. It's just that when a female does it she gets more publicity.
When it comes to a small gap(say, 5 years) it's just that whilst women are encouraged to mature more quickly men are encouragaed to stay forever young. If a girl chooses to stick to playing with dolls past a certain age she is shunned, whilst if a 25-year-old guy plays with his legos he's "young-minded and cool". It's because the mass subconscious still holds on to the idea that women are not naturally gifted and have to work hard, whilst men can take their time. If a girl DOESN'T mature quickly enough she is labeled as a barbie or dumb or whore or what not. So yes, the majority of 16-year-old girls I've met where about as mature as the majority of 20-year-old boys(and neither was too mature, tbh).
Quote:Sure, you can easily tell the difference between a 20 year old woman and a 10 year old, but what about say, 18 and 15?
I can. It's pretty easy. And even if some are more ambiguous than others, once they open their mouths it becomes clear. I may perceive an 18-year-old as being 15, but I never confused a minor with someone legal.
Quote:Perhaps you should've just stayed stupid and ignorant, like the rest of them.
Not sure if you're insulting that guy's friends or a population of over 130 million based on a few stereotypes. Do you have a problem with stereotypes?
Quote:Well, at least there's no Christian influence here, so they don't have to worry about the abstinence as a form of birth/STD control debate.
And we all know how well that's working in America.
Quote:Hysterical Americans these days view anything as porn, whether the person is nude or clothed.
Oh, ok. You really like stereotypes. Christianity ain't the only thing that's pushing abstinence, and Japan has enough things to promote abstinence without Christianity.
BUT HEY GUYS WHY DON'T WE HATE ON TWO STEREOTYPES WHICH NO ONE LIKES BECAUSE BY PUTTING THEM IN A SORT OF HALF-ASSED ARGUMENT I LOOK ALL BADASS AND EVERYONE AGREES, RITE?