So it just takes time! Even if it is a long time for the pace of a conversation it's still natural for us as beginners to have it like this. We also want everything we say to be perfect and try to run through everything in our head to make sure. If what we want to say is just not
there and doesn't come out as second-nature, we're not
used to that pattern. We could understand it if we saw it, but we're not used to it.
I'd understand if you don't feel like listening to an old man rambling for a total of 30 minutes when it's not aimed directly at your problem of constructing sentences, but I think he has some good points in there (or outrageous statements if you will, it's all in opinion). At least the first one.
If I was you right now I wouldn't cater my time to try to "fix" this. I would let it fix itself by continuing to get used to the language before I expect to have full sentences flying out of my mouth in a similar way to my native language; without having to take all this time to think about what I'm saying.
I think the car analogy is kind of accurate: Driving a car perfectly does not mean taking deliberate time and thinking about everything you do with a complex thought process, it's just
there and happens like second-nature. But how do you get to that point? You can study all the theory you want, but the first or second time you sit in front of the wheel you're inevitably going to be like that - you have to take more time than you should to think about what you do. It's only through getting used to what you're supposed to do that it becomes second-nature. With language learning, this means getting input - because no matter how much you
speak you only use what you already know and what you guess is right anyway. Obviously it's great to speak a lot to native speakers, but then it's what
they're saying, and the feedback that
they give you on your mistakes and such that matter. Therefore, it's input.
Now obviously, being able to speak good (not stumbling, pronunciation etc.) needs speaking practice. Steve talked about that in one of those videos. But I think the actual constructing of sentences, linking the words together, thinking about how to put your thoughts into words in this language, that's the product of how well the patterns sit in your brain.
So in short, my opinion would be to let the speaking happen on it's own and come along when it's ready, and keep doing what you like to do to get a lot of input.
But again, that's just my 2円. And people like Steve Kaufmann, Khatzumoto, and
Stephen Krashen.
Edited: 2011-08-13, 6:44 pm