Omoishinji Wrote:There are many people in Japan who utterly refuse to speak any Japanese, and expect to be spoken to in English. So, if a Japanese person tries to speak to you in English, first complement them on their English. Then speak to them in the language of your choice.
This person frustrates me yet I am also this person. Haha. K, well I live in Auckland, New Zealand, right in the city center where all the language schools are so there's a big population of whoever ud like to hang out with including Japanese. Now back a couple of years ago when I too was struggling to form sentences it made sense to talk to people in English where necessary. I've spoken jap fluently for about a year now so ever since then all communication takes place entirely in jap and I'm just not interested in conversing in English. Why? It's so slow and painful, Japanese is just much faster.
Despite this, lots of these people have come here to study English (I know, I get) so naturally they want to practice their English. Most people when they talk to me just kinda get it - I only do Japanese. Most if them are cool with it because we can connect and have engaging conversations and I make a lot of friends (serious Auckland central rocks). Then u get some people (lately one guy in particular) who know you speak it fluently and have no trouble communicating yet everytime they open their mouth to u it's... "ぁあ、アア ユウ ゴイング…ゴイング? ぁあ、ゴイングツウ… ゴイングツウザア… ザア…コンサート?"
And I mean THAT painlful. On the flipside to them it's like Argh this guy just won't speak English to me. Iunno communication wise it just makes no sense to anymore. Tho I have 1 or 2 friends that live here long term and we speak in mostly Japanese but it doesnt bother me if we speak in English cos they're my good friends and they have Bo problems communicating in English.
I only reply in Japanese and if you are unlucky enough to get the guy who says "you're Japaniizu izu bery guddo" I usually just say thanks and walk off. Maybe I should say ur English is very good and THEN walk off.
Sounds like a dick move I know but in the past it felt like I was studying Japanese and because now I speak it fluently, most of my friends are Japanese, my flatmate is Japanese, it's the only tv I watch and the only music I listen to. I've just had so many conversations and experiences in the language that's it's not something I'm studying anymore (still learning/acquiring it) but to me it's part of my life. A huge part of my life, it's part of who I am. So the whole teach me English thing has been and gone as far ad I'm concerned.
Another that's annoying is getting asked all the "how do you say X in English". How many million times do I feel like answering that question? I never asked it in Japanese (maybe only a few times) cos I don't like being asked it in the first place. I always reply with "知らん" and they're like but ur a native speaker u must know! To which I reply yeah but when I speak/listen to Japanese I think in Japanese so 考えた事がない、しかも、考えたくない。
This is why I treasure my close friends. They just kinda get me.