ファブリス Wrote:Icecream Wrote:What i object to is people spreading the misguided notion that taking medication is somehow weak or false, and that depression is something you must get through on your own.
It's not what I'm thinking. Only that medicines should not be sold as the final answer to depression. It does not cure unless the person wants to heal. That's the key.
It really really does depend on what kind of depression you're experiencing, and what the causes of it are.
I'm going to try to write similar things to what i wrote in the other post then lost from clipboard...
1stly, about medication alone not helping depression. With medication, a significant proportion of people are going to go into complete remission. (another significant proportion will have to try another therapy or type of medication, and another will only respond partially to any one medication). However, yes, even those people whose depression remits fully will likely have to make other changes to their lives as well. That's because someone who has been depressed for any significant length of time is likely to have stopped many activities they once enjoyed, and developed some bad thinking habits. So these people will have to make a conscious effort to get out of the rut and change things in order to live fully again. That doesn't mean that the medication alone is ineffective, or doing those things in the first place would necessarily have the same effect.
2ndly, about the causes of depression. There is no single cause of depression, and different people's depression is triggered by different things. For example, taking too many drugs like E or coke significantly increases your risk of experiencing major depression. (as a side point... to any of you who have never experienced depression, but have experienced a really bad come down at any time, that's pretty much how a depressed person feels in day to day life). Other people have recurrent depression that appears to come on for no apparent reason at all. In these cases, it probably isn't that there's some underlying "reason" for your depression that you have to look for. All you need is for your brain to work properly again.
Other people may have genes that predispose them to depression if combined with traumatic events. Still others may experience one clear emotional trigger. Even for those people whose depression is clearly triggered by an emotional event, it's not because they are particularly weak people, just that for whatever reason, that person's brain wasn't able to recover properly. In these cases, perhaps some kind of talk therapy is useful. But still, these people need their brain to work properly too.
3rdly, there are good reasons doctors prescribe medication. One of these is it's effectiveness in preventing relapse as opposed to placebo. Another is that being depressed for significant lengths of time damages your brain pretty much irreversibly. One of these is shrinkage of the hippocampus. You can find more information about that in the videos above. Anyway, taking antidepressents protects against this damage.
4thly, about dependancy on medication... antidepressants are not habit forming drugs!
Excersise and meditation are also good for depression in a certain percentage of people too, that is well proven. But there's absolutely no reason why more than one strategy can't be used. In fact, combining strategies tends to raise their efficiency overall, and so is probably the best option!
As for my own story, i wasted over half my life beleiving the common conception of depression... that depression is a personal weakness, that you have to fight and overcome it on your own, that medication would just be something that conceals the symptoms and is therefore sort of fake. I've had depressive episodes since i was young, that got worse and worse as it recurred.
in just the last episode, i tried the following things to get through it on my own: walking 1.5-2 hours a day and 5,6,7 hours at weekends, eating healthily, getting a job to make sure i had to do something every day, getting a weekend job tutoring a girl who had fallen behind in school due to illness - so i could feel like i was helping someone, moving away to a sunny country, travelling, forcing myself to go out every time i was invited somewhere, making new friends, relaxing with old friends, taking up new hobbies, making myself see new things, go sightseeing and stuff, and cognitive behavioural therapy.
Many of those things were helpful in the very short term... i felt better when i was doing them (barring CBT and the full time job). But overall, no matter what i did, my condition got worse.
My best friend finally told me that i had to try antidepressants, and that my preconceptions were wrong... depression is just an illness that can be treated with medication like any other. I'm so grateful to him for that!!!
The first 2 medications i tried had little to no effect, and by the time i was on the 3rd, i had entirely given up hope. I expected it wouldn't really change anything. But... it did!!! Living for me now is like living in a totally different world than the one i was living in before. I can't tell you how different things are for me now!!!
I've been on antidepressants for 2 years now, and i will continue for however long the doctor tells me to. I don't feel numb at all, though i think i did to start with. It was a long time before it had any effect, and even longer before i felt really better. It's a slow process. But now, it really annoys me to see people write the same myths that i wasted so many years believing. If i had just gone to the doctor and asked for help years before, i wouldn't have had to go through the absolute hell i did, and waste so many years of my life.
So please, everyone, think before you write!!! Don't tell people they shouldn't be taking medication the doctor has prescribed them. Don't discourage them from seeking help, or make them feel like they are weak. If you can overcome your depression with other methods, that's great, it really is!!! But if someone else can't, that doesn't mean they are weak, or haven't tried hard enough. It probably means that there's something different going on in their brain to yours. The popular conceptions of depression are really quite harmful to many people who actually experience it. It's not weakness, or selfishness, just an illness, and you don't have to waste years of your life fighting it by yourself.