My brother was here and annoyed me by telling my friends and girlfriend obscure slang. It would have been funny had it been just a few times (trying to explain slang is a funny process to think through), but he used it continuously and expected me to explain it to my bewildered friends, which is doubly difficult since it's so often culturally unique. I kept telling they not to worry about it, that it wasn't useful, but they of course wanted to know.
For example, he really got a kick out of "d-bag", as in, "That guy is a d-bag". So I had to explain what a douche bag was, and then explain that a lot of slang gets abbreviated, then explain that it's an insult since it associates someone with something gross.
This reminds me of a point I forgot to make in my first comment that someone else mentioned: the Japanese are loathe to explain sexual slang or insults from Japanese, even as they use them right in front of you. Why do you think that is? Do they feel it reflects badly on them if they teach foreigners slang? They can't be embaressed by it because they use it... The only Japanese I find who are willingly to explain sexual slang and insults are those who have spent time overseas (and sometimes those who haven't if you get them drunk enough).
The only reason I tell people not to worry about something in English is because I know how hard it will be to explain, and it's usually in the middle of a conversation. Lazy, I know. (>_<)
wrightak Wrote:dingomick Wrote:I think the scenario is a prevalent cultural charateristic. Because of lack of exposure in an almost completely homogenous society, the Japanese tend to have a general mindset that aspects of their language and culture are too difficult for foreigners to learn.
Could you expand on this? It's not something that I would have said. I don't follow how a homogeneous society implies Japanese people thinking that their language is too difficult for foreigners to learn.
That was worded poorly. What I meant was that the Japanese know that Japanese, kanji specifically, is difficult since they themselves struggle with it. And being a homogenous society, the vast majority rarely if ever interact with any foreigner with mastery of it, usually just those with poor usage. Thus they combine the two and make the poor leap of logic and assume Japanese is too difficult for foreigners to learn. People do it all over the world in a variety of awful ways, "I always see black people on the news in jail; all blacks are criminals", "All the Japanese restaurants in my town serve sushi; the Japanese must eat sushi every day", "All the pictures I see of the Middle East are war zones; every place in the Middle East is a war zone," etc.
Edited: 2007-09-02, 9:28 pm