ファブリス Wrote:Not to mention numerous accounts of people who "felt" something when a relative died in an accident or hospital miles away, and then found out moments/hours/days later that the relative died at that very moment.
This kind of thing always reminds me of this section of Richard Feynman's "Surely You're Joking, Mr. Feynman", which is kind of a collection of stories he told his friend about his life, while being recorded. His wife was sick with tuberculosis while he was at Los Alamos working on the Manhattan Project, and he rushed to her hospital in Albuquerque when he heard how sick she was.
"Arlene died a few hours after I got there. A nurse came in to fill out
the death certificate, and went out again. I spent a little more time with
my wife. Then I looked at the clock I had given her seven years before, when
she had first become sick with tuberculosis. It was something which in those
days was very nice: a digital clock whose numbers would change by turning
around mechanically. The clock was very delicate and often stopped for one
reason or another--I had to repair it from time to time--but I kept it
going for all those years. Now, it had stopped once more--at 9:22, the
time on the death certificate!
I remembered the time I was in my fraternity house at MIT when the idea
came into my head completely out of the blue that my grandmother was dead.
Right after that there was a telephone call, just like that. It was for Pete
Bernays--my grandmother wasn't dead. So I remembered that, in case
somebody told me a story that ended the other way. I figured that such
things can sometimes happen by luck--after all, my grandmother was very
old--although people might think they happened by some sort of
supernatural phenomenon.
Arlene had kept this clock by her bedside all the time she was sick,
and now it stopped the moment she died. I can understand how a person who
half believes in the possibility of such things, and who hasn't got a
doubting mind--especially in a circumstance like that--doesn't
immediately try to figure out what happened, but instead explains that no
one touched the clock, and there was no possibility of explanation by normal
phenomena. The clock simply stopped. It would become a dramatic example of
these fantastic phenomena.
I saw that the light in the room was low, and then I remembered that
the nurse had picked up the clock and turned it toward the light to see the
face better. That could easily have stopped it."
The problem with stories like you mentioned is that people suddenly feel weird from time to time. Whether they just lose a lot of energy all of a sudden for no reason, or suddenly find themselves sweating a lot despite not having exercised, or just feel down suddenly. After the fact, maybe they find out that some bad news in their life happened right at the moment, and they make a connection. The problem is that they fail to note all the times when it happens and ends up being nothing special (Feynman here is a notable exception). There are bound to be coincidences like that often.
Not trying to be antagonistic or anything, I realize that you're not making such a strong statement. I just don't think that those accounts should be taken as anything more than coincidence.
Edited: 2011-01-31, 7:50 am