Hey everybody, I´m writing this post because my learning process of Japanese has reached it´s bottom. I think the best name for my problem is the "all or nothing" problem. What I mean by this is that I for some weird reason do have the idea that language learning is only effective if you manage to repeat and learn a lot each day, and that small steps or efforts are a waste of time. If your eyes just popped out in direction of the screen, I guess you are the right ones to help me.
The problem is that because I have this idea abut language learning I tend to do either ALL my repetitions or NONE, because it is somewhere stuck in my head that the first way is the only right and the second one is a complete waste of time.
The funniest thing about it is that I don´t even KNOW where I have this idea from! I guess this feeling comes from a strange mix of different thoughts about language learning, above all that it is a part of human nature to forget things, and that language learning only makes sense if you repeat vocabulary and sentences in a certain pattern, and that this pattern can only be achieved by repeating the same entries over several days in a row (is that even true??). So in conclusion, let´s say i learn a sentence today but I don´t repeat it the next day for whatever reason (right now it´s introduction week at the uni and I can´t really plan anything, which isn´t even my fault, but it still makes me FEEL guilty!), then I think that the effort of learning it on the first day is a complete waste of time because I didn´t stick to the rules of my memory.
My questions now are:
1. Are the any learners of Japanese (or any other language!) that have faced the same problem? And if yes, how did you cope with it?
2. Does anyone maybe have some data about remembering and/ or forgetting patterns? Does it even make sense to believe that not studying the same words/ sentences for several days in a row is useless? What can you tell me from experience?
3. Can you tell me from experience whether it is good for the learning process if you learn a word/ sentence on one day intensely and then maybe again in a few days? The most frustrating part about this is that I have the feeling that I cannot "work" on my Japanese! If I sit down with my guitar for 3 hours, I know the practicing effect does not vanish until the next day, but what about languages?
Sorry, this got really long, but I´m just desperate right now!
Tobi
The problem is that because I have this idea abut language learning I tend to do either ALL my repetitions or NONE, because it is somewhere stuck in my head that the first way is the only right and the second one is a complete waste of time.
The funniest thing about it is that I don´t even KNOW where I have this idea from! I guess this feeling comes from a strange mix of different thoughts about language learning, above all that it is a part of human nature to forget things, and that language learning only makes sense if you repeat vocabulary and sentences in a certain pattern, and that this pattern can only be achieved by repeating the same entries over several days in a row (is that even true??). So in conclusion, let´s say i learn a sentence today but I don´t repeat it the next day for whatever reason (right now it´s introduction week at the uni and I can´t really plan anything, which isn´t even my fault, but it still makes me FEEL guilty!), then I think that the effort of learning it on the first day is a complete waste of time because I didn´t stick to the rules of my memory.
My questions now are:
1. Are the any learners of Japanese (or any other language!) that have faced the same problem? And if yes, how did you cope with it?
2. Does anyone maybe have some data about remembering and/ or forgetting patterns? Does it even make sense to believe that not studying the same words/ sentences for several days in a row is useless? What can you tell me from experience?
3. Can you tell me from experience whether it is good for the learning process if you learn a word/ sentence on one day intensely and then maybe again in a few days? The most frustrating part about this is that I have the feeling that I cannot "work" on my Japanese! If I sit down with my guitar for 3 hours, I know the practicing effect does not vanish until the next day, but what about languages?
Sorry, this got really long, but I´m just desperate right now!
Tobi
