I may be wrong here, but I don't think I am when I say that the majority of people that have a desire to study Japanese in the U.S. at one time or another take university classes. That isn't necessarily true of this community, but considering the self study nature of the book the site is based off of that isn't surprising. So yes I am making generalizations based on the university setting, but I would say that it isn't an exaggeration to assume that comprises the majority.
I have to disagree with you on the usage of unfortunate. Although the second case is much more casually used, the core meaning still remains. At both times, the underlying message (whether the speaker intends it or not) is that their interests/views/etc. are unfortunate despite the fact that that persons views can't necessarily be helped. The best argument against my view is perhaps that the unfortunate used in the game example is used to mean "unfortunate for ME because I don't have someone to play with" while my first usage is "unfortunate for YOU." That being said, I don't see that as being the most common interpretation. Of course if you keep up with neurobiology/psychology, you could just say that all thoughts are deterministic and free will is just an illusion given to us by our higher brain structures; but taking that view can lead to very unproductive living similar to the effect predetermined salvation had on the early American Christian church.
I have to disagree with you on the usage of unfortunate. Although the second case is much more casually used, the core meaning still remains. At both times, the underlying message (whether the speaker intends it or not) is that their interests/views/etc. are unfortunate despite the fact that that persons views can't necessarily be helped. The best argument against my view is perhaps that the unfortunate used in the game example is used to mean "unfortunate for ME because I don't have someone to play with" while my first usage is "unfortunate for YOU." That being said, I don't see that as being the most common interpretation. Of course if you keep up with neurobiology/psychology, you could just say that all thoughts are deterministic and free will is just an illusion given to us by our higher brain structures; but taking that view can lead to very unproductive living similar to the effect predetermined salvation had on the early American Christian church.
