@gavmck Thanks for the post. Fortunately people in my real life have been 100% supportive of me learning Japanese through self-study. The criticism was online, and of someone who has many opinions I don't really agree with. I just decided to take the opportunity to step back and look at what I was doing with my self-study. I also wanted to throw it on here to get some feedback. The advice I've received so far has been very useful, I'm really happy this community exists!
I'm happy I went the kanji route first, the best part about it is that it got me into a Japanese study routine. Before I did RTK I wasn't very serious in my studies. As for RTK, I do plan on doing part 3 maybe a year from now. At the moment I feel I have more important things to be spending my study hours on. If I come across a kanji I don't know I just un-suspend it and learn it.
I don't really see how someone can teach another person grammar either. I could be wrong though. For myself I learn the patterns and rules, then it's still clear as mud. Once I see it a bunch of times in different scenarios it slowly starts to stick and make sense.
The other day I finally started watching dramas and I got subs2srs up and running on my mac. I've been watching "My Girl", which is fairly easy to understand. These two things I think are going to be a nice boost to my understanding.
I'm happy I went the kanji route first, the best part about it is that it got me into a Japanese study routine. Before I did RTK I wasn't very serious in my studies. As for RTK, I do plan on doing part 3 maybe a year from now. At the moment I feel I have more important things to be spending my study hours on. If I come across a kanji I don't know I just un-suspend it and learn it.
I don't really see how someone can teach another person grammar either. I could be wrong though. For myself I learn the patterns and rules, then it's still clear as mud. Once I see it a bunch of times in different scenarios it slowly starts to stick and make sense.
The other day I finally started watching dramas and I got subs2srs up and running on my mac. I've been watching "My Girl", which is fairly easy to understand. These two things I think are going to be a nice boost to my understanding.

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