yukamina Wrote:I'm sure I write plenty of kanji with the wrong stroke order. Not really sure what difference it makes(except 女 looks worse when I write it properly).
Don't worry, you're not the only one

I've written 女 differently since I was a kid, because the 'proper' order looks like crap to me.
Speaking of stroke order, you guys really shouldn't fret or be paranoid that you're doing a character in the incorrect stroke. Stroke order is just a learning tool, like training wheels, and once you reach a certain level you really need to decide for yourself what orders etc work best for you individually. It's useful as a beginner, but at the advanced stages you can dismiss it if you want. Many Japanese don't always use the 'official' order, because they find a way that works best for them.
Another issue with stroke order, is that there simply isn't a single, universal and correct way to write things. Kanji have evolved and been cultivated in so many different regions in Asia that there are almost always many different ways to write a single character. Even a simple character like 何 has two 'official' stroke orders!
No one is going to be staring at you write and scream, "INCORRECT STROKE ORDER!" if you do it wrong, so don't worry about it. A lot of the 'official' stroke orders are also not always the most effective and fast. Especially some of the longer and more complex characters sometimes have very stupid and illogical stroke orders. Remember, people invented stroke orders, not gods

many of them are flawed, and it's up to you to use whichever you find easiest, fastest, and prettiest.
Edited: 2009-06-11, 12:52 pm