Having read the "Survey, where are you at ?" post, it was interesting to see people's different levels and approaches. I don't think anybody fits into my situation though and I wouldn't mind some advice. People who were in my poition and managed to get out of it are obviously the best. My situation is as follows, I passed the JLPT 3 a couple of years ago and have been floating in between level 3 and 2 ever since. The sight of those JLPT 2 word lists just depresses me and I just can't sit down and learn words like that. I've tried this mining thing with anki but I find that loads of cards pile up every day and still nothing sticks. I want to learn Japanese for the simple reasons that my girlfriend is Japanese, her family can't speak any English and I want to make real (normal) friends in Japan and not the English speaking lot. My main problem is that I have absolutely no interest in the langauge at all. I can't stand j-drama, TV , music etc. Japanese is purely a tool for my life and I find that if it's only a tool, it becomes a real struggle.
Anyway, i've almost finished RTK 1, so I hope this will help me to remember vocab in the written form. If I can get to remember words, i'll be fine. Passive exposure doesn't do much for me you see. I worked at a Japanese elementary school for three years and that is real exposure. I can talk to kids but that's not much good. Just having Japanese radio in the background does nothing for me, it may as well be in Swahilli. I always make excuses about why I have this problem with remembering vocab. but i think I am just making excuses and that is becoming a self-fullfilling prophecy.
Was anyone else in my situation? Any advice?
Anyway, i've almost finished RTK 1, so I hope this will help me to remember vocab in the written form. If I can get to remember words, i'll be fine. Passive exposure doesn't do much for me you see. I worked at a Japanese elementary school for three years and that is real exposure. I can talk to kids but that's not much good. Just having Japanese radio in the background does nothing for me, it may as well be in Swahilli. I always make excuses about why I have this problem with remembering vocab. but i think I am just making excuses and that is becoming a self-fullfilling prophecy.
Was anyone else in my situation? Any advice?
Edited: 2009-06-03, 6:56 pm

Read wikipedia.