mafried Wrote:Am I the minority here?
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion so I don't think being a minority is a problem, even if you actually are, but I think there is a reason some people try hard to cut their native languages out as much as possible though.
Japanese and English, or any other European language, are pretty much like antipodes and it takes enormous amount of time for westerners to acquire Japanese. You might already know this but U.S. department of state have language programs for their diplomats and according to them it takes 2400 to 2760 hours for an average English speaking individual to get to the level where they can understand most Japanese materials and express most of what they want to say with a strong accent and some grammar errors. This is more than 3 times the hours required for some of the "easy" languages such as Spanish which they say takes only 720 hours to get to the same level.
Let's look at things from the perspective from the other side. If you go to any college in the states, you'll probably find tons of different sorts of Asian students. Some of them hang around mostly with the guys from their home countries and although they use English several hours a day in classes, and can read books and write reports on the topics they are studying, their spoken English typically have very strong accents and a lot of errors, and you can tell they have to try very hard to express themselves. And there is another kind who share rooms with American dudes, watch TV with them, go to the movies with them, etc, and after 4 years, they usually acquire quite natural spoken English.
I'm actually learning English (I'm Japanese), and have already spent something like 9000 hours, and I feel, or hope, I need another 3000 or so to get to the level I want. And in order to get that much hours, I really need to cut my Japanese time like guys here are doing with their languages. No Japanese TVs, No Japanese books, Trying to stay away from Japanese web sites (This is the tough one), I even read Manga translated in English. I don't think using your mother tongue for 30 min or an hour a day would hurt that much, but if you always hang out with guys from your country and use your native language for hours every day, the outcome will probably be like these Asian students' who mostly hang out with the people from their countries. Which is still pretty impressive though.