urpwnd Wrote:The grammar doesn't exist thing is more of a joke. For all of you that didn't read the posts that I linked to, they basically state:Basing your argument on a friend who was in elementary school in the States is ignoring the fact that kids and adults learn differently.
That grammar does exist, as an abstract concept, because we say it does
That you don't need to spend a ton of time learning it
With adequate exposure, you'll pick it up naturally anyway and end up sounding like a native (as opposed to sound like grammar-bot 5000)
This works in almost any language. A good friend of mine, a Japanese native, was born in Tokyo. He lived in Pennsylvania for a few years during elementary school, moved back to Tokyo, and has lived/worked there ever since. His English is ****** fantastic*. At elementary school levels, you aren't doing grammar. When he got back to Japan, he spoke better English than his "English teachers" in school, and didn't bother with any other formal training. All his exposure since then is purely through media. He reads a lot, watches American TV and movies, and picks up stuff via the web.
I'm not saying studying grammar is a waste of time, I just think it's not as important as people make it out to be. I mean, really... how much do you study grammar in your native language? Did you speak well, grammatically speaking, before getting into REAL grammar study in roughly middle school? Massive exposure will have you speaking like Japanese people speak, which is kind of the point, right?
The most important part is to do whatever works for you, have fun, and stay motivated. If you like grammar, go nuts, study it like crazy. It still counts as exposure. ^____^
Adults have powers of abstraction (such as the ability to spot and use grammar rules) that kids don't have, so why not use them, if it helps you? In fact, all of RTK is based on the premise that adults have powers of abstract thought that kids don't, and so we can use what we've got (abstraction) instead of trying to get back what we've lost (extremely plastic spongelike kiddy brains).
That said, massive exposure is still important. But learning grammar rules can help adults learn more efficiently. Not learning grammatical patterns is like doing kanji by rote for ten years, IMO.
