Tobberoth Wrote:askayscha Wrote:Why are all your analogies about arab people?
From what I read you sound like you have some sort of vendetta against them.
Because arabs make up the HUGE majority of immigrants here? Check out Rosengård in malmö etc, there are whole towns where more than 50% of the people living there are arabs.
I could bring up black people in my examples, but it wouldn't be fair since I don't know a single black person well and they pretty much never make the news (and since there are so few of them, generalizations wouldn't really be possible). If 90% of the immigrants are arabs, it makes sense to use them in my comparisions.
EDIT: I found an interesting statistic on the previous subject. Turns out 51% of all visa are given to family-related immigration. Only 1,2% of all visas are giving because of work-related immigration.
All of this talk about Sweden leads me to conclude that all of your arguments about the overall, inherent disrespectfulness of living in another country without learning the language are stemming from your frustrations at home. I would argue that these frustrations, legitimate though they may be, are not directly connected with the issue of language learning itself.
Why is it especially rude to be unable to talk to someone in the store? Some people are unfriendly, stupid, purposefully mischievious, etc. - communication can fall flat for any number of reasons, and I don't feel that people have any particular obligation to be able to communicate flawlessly with anyone else they might encounter in their country. It's arbitrary and unrealistic. I don't owe it to anyone else to be able to talk about any particular thing, and I don't have to be able to talk about any and everything in order to contribute meaningfully to society.
Most Japanese people can't understand all the different dialects, right? So does that mean an Aomori person is being rude if he goes into a Kagoshima store and doesn't understand the shopkeeper's extremely local way of speaking? Of course, they can resort to standard Japanese in all likelihood, but so can non-Japanese-speaking foreigners resort to gestures, etc. If there's one thing I've learned as an English teacher, it's that almost anything can be communicated without using words at all. It all depends on the willingness of the people involved.
Which brings me to my main point: there are many things that people who can't speak Japanese *might* do, such as demand unreasonable English accommodation, make no effort to understand warnings, etc., but this should not be conflated with the act of not learning Japanese. Plenty of Japanese speakers also do these things - some are bitchy and selfish, and all have imperfect language skills that sometimes fall flat. On the other hand, some non-speakers never do these things - they always bring a Japanese buddy to stores, make a good faith effort to acknowledge the attempts of Japanese speakers to communicate, etc.
Don't conflate the action with the actor. Learn the language if you so please, but don't get your panties all in a bunch because someone else doesn't want to, for whatever reason.