(2016-05-28, 4:53 am)FlameseeK Wrote: By the same token, writing can help your speaking. I can hardly speak any Japanese because I haven't been working on my production, but I know that writing would definitely improve my speaking. Yet, not everyone realizes, despite the fact that both skills involve the ability to put words together properly. If you can write sentences in Japanese "fluently"- in the sense that you can recall/use words and grammar efficiently without having to think about these things - then all you'll have to work on to speak well is pretty much pronunciation. As long as you work on that, you'll "magically" be able to speak.
While this is true to an extent, I know from experience that writing doesn't help speech past a certain point. I haven't reached that point with Japanese yet, but in English (my native language), my writing is far better than my speech, not because writing is magically easier than speaking, but because I have as much time as I want to get my thoughts together (clearly, I don't use very much of it).
I've never been good at speaking; when I want to say something, there's too many ideas of what I want to say and how I want to say it going on at once; when I don't have anything I really want to say, I think too hard about how to speak without saying anything.
I'm not much of a conversationalist; I prefer listening to speaking most of the time, despite the way my posts make me seem.
The above isn't my problem with speaking Japanese, but there's a similar gap in my ability to write and my ability to speak that I think everyone experiences.
When I want to write something in Japanese, I have plenty of time to think about how to say it and how I want to say it, but when speaking, I'm floundering just to keep the conversation going (more so than with English, that is).
The conversation drills I've done with my tutor have been quite difficult, even though I'm only supposed to keep a conversation up for five minutes... I was saved one time by a video I'd just watched about a computer finally besting the top go player, but otherwise, it's been difficult even when I have something I want to try talking about.
(During normal lessons, it's the weird half-English, half-Japanese that happens when you're trying to both use the language and get things across at a reasonable rate)
As for reading and listening (a.k.a. the actual topic), I've found that reading does help listening by increasing your familiarity with common collocations and phrases; as someone already mentioned, it doesn't really help with words until you've figured out that that's the word that's being said.
I've found it easier to hear phrases that I've read to the point of instantly recognizing than any set of particular words.
That doesn't mean it's not still 'listen to get better at listening', because that's the main method. And of course, more comprehensible audio is good.