Zarxrax Wrote:I don't find studying Japanese fun. What drives me is the thought of one day being able to be able to utilize the language, to speak with people, to read things, and to watch and listen to things. The journey there is no fun at all. I don't *want* to sit down and look up words I don't know, add things into an srs to study, listen to it over and over, and suffer from a half-assed understanding of something that I would really like to fully understand. But I put up with it, because I know that's how I will get to where I need to go.I can understand that some people just don't like certain things, but nothing is inherently 'fun' or enjoyable (except maybe certain drugs and sex, but that's primarily biology); you have to make things enjoyable.
It's no different than pretty much every other thing in one's life. You know what's fun and enjoyable? Eating delicious stuff like burritos and pizza and burgers and ice cream and pecan pie. But I choose to diet and frequently give up those foods because the benefits of doing so outweigh the fleeting enjoyment that can be had.
I absolutely hate exercising. But I do it anyways, because I would rather not die of a heart attack before I'm 50.
I hate going to work, but I want money.
Of course its natural to want to make things as pleasant as possible. But in the end, sometimes you just gotta suck it up and do it.
Following your examples.
Eating delicious stuff vs healthy stuff:
If you bother to appreciate different flavors and cook things on your own, pretty much everything becomes tasty (this isn't a matter of background either, my family never ate most of the things I eat now).
I gave up certain foods because they irritate my gut too much (not 'gluten intolerant' or celiac, just found my digestive health to be better without wheat); I quite enjoy my no-wheat alternatives (oat and brown rice pancakes are, arguably, superior to their wheat cousins), though I allow myself a treat every few weeks.
Exercising:
I used to hate it, now I don't; what did I do? I made goals and aimed for them; I took care of my body post workout; I didn't overwork myself. That made it fun.
The only reason I backed off this year is because of a knee injury (unrelated to exercising, though I did make it worse by trying to run on it).
Anki:
At worst, it's something I feel like I need to do for my day to feel complete (but I don't hate it); usually, though, it's interesting (thus fun).
Gritting your teeth and just doing it might be the way you've dealt with things, but there's a much better alternative: appreciate what your doing and enjoy it; or just be apathetic, if you can't like it. It'll probably help with your goal of living past fifty too, since all that stress you spend on actively disliking things probably isn't doing much for your blood-pressure.
This is mostly for other people, by the way; I know it's highly unlikely you care about my opinion, and you're even less likely to listen to it because it's directed towards you.
Regarding RTK:
I've said this in plenty of other threads, but I think RTK is useless between the stages of learning to recognize kanji as individual characters and actually writing them. Some people do this all at once (I don't recommend, because what's the point of writing kanji, but not knowing any Japanese), others wait until their Japanese is to the point where they feel they can afford the time to practice writing (I'm one of these people); in either case, RTK is probably only useful for a few months to a year of total study and there's no benefit to using it except for during these times. Illustrated on the lines below:
RTK (half a year(?): all)-----> Japanese
RTK (couple months: 'seeing') --> Japanese ------------> RTK (writing)
The difference being the amount of time before doing actual Japanese study, like vocab and grammar.
Not to say that you can't work on those things at the same time, but it's still time that could be spent on vocab and grammar.
I only practiced writing a few kanji, and only because I thought I had to, at the time (and I was practicing to produce them nicely, not just in the correct stroke order); this only happened for a few characters before I finally decided it was a waste of time. I haven't had any problems with studying since then (going for N1 this year, with an actual chance of passing).
Edited: 2015-04-14, 8:48 pm

