mattimus Wrote:Regarding the divorce, that's not surprising. The immersion method really requires going into monk-mode for a long time, and the idea of doing that while in a relationship leads to a pretty obvious conclusion. How many consecutive days in a row can you tell your partner "let's just stay in and watch dramas in a language you don't understand" before the relationship explodes?To each his own, but that's exactly why I was never into the "listen to podcasts you don't understand until your ears bleed" school of language learning. Don't get me wrong - I'm a geek who can spend anywhere from two to eight hours a day in Japanese, depending on my schedule. But I also have a life in English (at least for the near future), and I'm not going to let it wither and die in the name of becoming fluent in 18 months.
Learning another language should expand your horizons, not shrink them.
