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Formally apprehensive about speaking

#1
For the longest time, i was sooo afraid of speaking Japanese, for fear of making mistakes, but after seeing Benny Lewis(Fluent in 3 months) horribly stumble through his Japanese,It made me less afraid to speak, and so yesterday after a few years i spoke to someone in Japanese on Skype! I've got to say it wasn't that bad really. I made a lot of mistakes, but so what? Also I've gotta say i was better than i thought i was( lots of room for improvement though). So i'm definitely gonna be doing it again. The point i'm trying to make is don't be afraid to speak, even if you make a lot of mistakes, because the time you spend being afraid is time you could be using to get better.
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#2
Nice work cae99v, I'm proud of you! <3

edit: tone
Edited: 2013-10-20, 2:32 pm
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#3
Thanks a lot! Also, @tashippy i read your last reply, don't worry, i wasn't offended at all.
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#4
Good work!

I've held off as long as I could, but I do think you mean "formerly" rather than "formally".
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#5
Congrats. Fear not mistakes, while they are embarrassing at the time, they quickly become stories to tell later on (Such as when I said that people in Nagano are vegetables, 野菜 instead of 優しい) or even a minor catchphrase, in-joke, teaching example (焼き猫).
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#6
液体 and 体液 are dangerous
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#7
Opps! Yeah i did mean "formerly" Thanks!
ktcgx Wrote:Good work!

I've held off as long as I could, but I do think you mean "formerly" rather than "formally".
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#8
cae99v Wrote:Opps! Yeah i did mean "formerly" Thanks!
ktcgx Wrote:Good work!

I've held off as long as I could, but I do think you mean "formerly" rather than "formally".
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#9
As I tell my students regularly, you should not only be unafraid of making mistakes, but you absolutely MUST make mistakes to learn a foreign language. It's impossible to learn a language without making mistakes. The more you make, the quicker you'll learn. Seriously. Get as many language exchange partners as you can and speak terrible, mistake-ridden, broken Japanese for a few months, and you will see your speaking ability sky-rocket.
Edited: 2013-10-21, 9:41 pm
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#10
JusenkyoGuide Wrote:Congrats. Fear not mistakes, while they are embarrassing at the time, they quickly become stories to tell later on (Such as when I said that people in Nagano are vegetables, 野菜 instead of 優しい) or even a minor catchphrase, in-joke, teaching example (焼き猫).
I'd love to hear more such mishaps. Is there a thread for that? I probably said things without realizing it. I went to Japan for a week or two when I spoke but a few words and people would say 'jouzu' and I had never learned that word so I thought it was a synonym for 'hanasu', so I was like 'uh, yeah chotto jouzu'. That's less a word mixup than a lack of cultural awareness/modesty mistake.
OP, I'm sure Philadelphians have thick skin, I felt like my post was sort of advocating stalking strangers. Wink
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ashman63 Wrote:As I tell my students regularly, you should not only be unafraid of making mistakes, but you absolutely MUST make mistakes to learn a foreign language. It's impossible to learn a language without making mistakes. The more you make, the quicker you'll learn. Seriously. Get as many language exchange partners as you can and speak terrible, mistake-riddled, broken Japanese for a few months, and you will see your speaking ability sky-rocket.
Same here, and it's so true... I like to think that hearing all my mistakes everyday in Japanese helps them to realise that it's not the end of the world if they make one...
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#12
My problem would be what do I talk about? I can only say the most basic things but I would sound robotic and boring.
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#13
learningkanji Wrote:My problem would be what do I talk about? I can only say the most basic things but I would sound robotic and boring.
Find a language exchange partner who can speak a bit of English (and wants to speak English). Use your limited Japanese to attempt to say more complex things. When you don't know how to say a word, or formulate a particular sentence, say the bits you don't know in English. Then ask your exchange partner how to say it in Japanese. Write it down, and say it a few times in different sentences....making a bunch of mistakes as you go, and eventually you'll learn those new words and they'll be relevant vocab to what you want to talk about.
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#14
learningkanji Wrote:My problem would be what do I talk about? I can only say the most basic things but I would sound robotic and boring.
I started off with アイスクリームが好きです. Wink

Communication comes from need. I've gotten a lot better because I am formally studying now, but I still managed to get to a daily living level just because of need. Because I teach in a Japanese school, my vocab includes a lot of educational terms, again because of need. If you need to communicate it, you'll start to work out how to say it.
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