Zlarp Wrote:As for people living in Japan and never learning the language. Are you sure those people actually watch Japanese television and have Japanese friends?
Also, why do people keep banging on their point as if focused study and "passive" listening (whatever that may be, as exemplified by Nadiatims) were mutually exclusive? I know more than a child, so of course I'm going to make use of that knowledge. Doesn't mean I can't learn the other way as well to complement it.
Well, I actually don't know any foreigners that enjoy watching Japanese television, including myself. I find daily television in Japan to be extremely boring, and I think most of my foreign friends agree with me. I only watched when I had a host family way back when, and with girls who enjoyed it--and I still do with my current girlfriend a bit, but we usually watch movies.
But yeah, they certainly have Japanese friends and are regularly exposed to attempts to speak to Japanese people (Here in Kyoto a lot of people frequent places like A-Bar, where it's set up so you'll share tables with people you don't know. Thus, you end up meeting people regardless of language ability). But, because their Japanese is not yet good enough on its own to hold a real friendship their most lasting friendships seem to be with people who know at least some English. Even when I first moved here it was a while before I really had good friends that I only spoke Japanese to. I had a bunch of mix-language friends at first.
Not to mention, it's hard to make friends at first for cultural reasons too. Now I know how to act around Japanese people who haven't had a lot of exposure to foreigners and foreign culture. I can put my Japanese-ness up and down like it were on a dial. But at first I couldn't do that at all and I imagine I could be off-putting to people who weren't used to American culture. People who first come here also haven't learned to do this.
さて、nobody is saying that any form of listening and studying are mutually exclusive. Rather, I think you should be realistic about which types of studying really improve your Japanese and which ones do so barely or not at all. I think a lot of learning styles that work for infants, such as listening to something vastly beyond your level, simple do not work for adults.
Edited: 2012-12-17, 7:21 am