Stansfield123 Wrote:Your post changes I nothing said and is full of a lot of logic stretches. Just because someone is not fine doesn't necessarily mean you will automatically hear about it. Not everyone has strong mutual acquaintances with their friends. Also just because someone is not okay doesn't mean they dead; there are a lot of other bad situations one can get into that you wouldn't necessarily hear about. Therefore in this situation there's nothing unusual about a little suspicion.ryuudou Wrote:If you haven't been in contact with someone you generally don't know if they're okay or not. Hence the suspicion. Hm. Don't shitpost.You don't need to be in contact with someone you used to know, to know they're fine. If they weren't fine, you'd hear about it from shared acquaintances.
There are dozens of people I haven't talked to in decades, about whom I know for a fact that they're alive...just by virtue of the fact that no one ever called to tell me they died. If someone does die, I invariably hear about it.
Perhaps if you weren't on some kind of spectrum you'd know how these things work.
Perhaps if you didn't have a reputation for being a subpar poster you'd make more sense when you attempt to call people out.
Edited: 2015-07-20, 12:27 am
