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anyone else sick of perverted stories? - romanrozhok - 2008-01-02

At first I liked perverted stories that people posted. But now, as I reach past the halfway mark, I feel like there are too many. Yes they are helpful, but I almost feel like morally wrong for using so many disgusting stories lol. Nevertheless, I will keep using them and using the new ones people make.


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - radical_tyro - 2008-01-02

For some (most?) of us, perverted stories only help to make it more memorable. If you have a problem with them, simply don't use them. Use whatever story you wish or even better, make your own.


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - meolox - 2008-01-02

Heisig does say in the intro that you can "shock, disgust" the mind to make a story stick so I see no problem with them, I have to say I'm sure everyone else was thinking what I was thinking when I first came across Uncle 叔.


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - billyclyde - 2008-01-02

I use perverted stories personally, but I don't share them because I doubt they'll be memorable for others. The simple fact is the vast majority people have chosen to share are not particularly memorable for being perverted. I think especially of the ones that base radicals on strippers, prostitutes etc. Personally, it's less a matter of being offended than rolling my eyes.

Being perverted doesn't necessarily make something more memorable. It does, I fear, make me uncomfortable, if just by thinking this is often not a very welcoming place for women. (I feel safe saying the typical perverted story involves some kind of sexually degrading/violent act towards women.)

And no, I didn't use them, but I still had the most popular ones there on the page in my face. Unpleasant.


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - ファブリス - 2008-01-02

That said I hope most users of the site can take stories with a grain of salt. And the definition of "perverted" itself could be discussed on and on... One might think of something "perverted" someone else might not. Some things become perverted just because people say it's bad. Sexuality easily comes to mind.

Whether it's sexual content, weird stuff, or plain old blood n' gore, and if you feel the story is really worthwhile sharing, then at least please write it with a bit of class Wink If somebody complains to me and I see that no effort was put into writing the story, I'll be much more likely to reset it back to "private" status. So far I rarely received complaints.


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - stehr - 2008-01-02

I never really liked the perverted stories but I have used some of them to help me remember tough characters (discharge comes to mind).

The bad thing is that the site cannot be recommended for children under 13 to use, which I did actually do once before I realized really how perverted the stories are.

Moreover I don't think that perversion necessarily makes stories more interesting or memorable. And in excess they are just as boring as non-perverted stories.


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - SpaceCakeGirl - 2008-01-02

My boyfriend really really wants to start on his own volume of RTK after he quizzed me one day and realized I knew the writing and meaning of all these random kanjis. As I'm almost halfway through I occassionaly think "I should just hurry up and finish so he can have my book" and then I realize I really don't want him to read my stories! They're naughty.

I always take the story that's easiest for me to remember, but on occassion I will kind of turn my nose up at a story that I find to be offensive....and sometimes they stick in my head! as much as I don't want them to.


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - DrJones - 2008-01-03

I don't particularly enjoy these stories, as I found most of them useless, but I do understand that some people's humor is defined by high levels of offensive content (that's why things like American Pie sell well), and that in order to study 2000+ kanji you must have fun.

I thought yesterday the following solution. The report button is used to mark stories that appear on Heisig, but I've seen it being used to mark naughty stories, too. The site could implement a filter that hides the entries that have X bad reports (X being adjustable), as does Youtube and some discussion boards I've seen. By adjusting the filter, I won't have to read stories featuring Rocco Siffriedi if I don't want to, while allowing other users to read that kind of stories.


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - dukelexon - 2008-01-03

I'll assume by the word "perverted" you're simply referring to sexually suggestive stories. To be honest ... I don't think there are ENOUGH of them, considering how powerful a tool they are. I have yet to fail a card with a kanji that I've used "titillating" images for ... and I've got a whole lot of them. Playing to my libido is a surefire way to strengthen recall, for me. The hormones really engrave the image in my mind.

So, why complain about them? There's only one reason, and it's always the same. I think we all know what I'm referring to.

The simple truth is ... if you remove arbitrary codes of religious morality out of the equation, there wouldn't be anything particularly remarkable about suggestive stories ... certainly nothing to make a complaint over. They would just be one of the many genres of short narratives that we've accumulated here, with nothing in particular to distinguish them over stories that include mention of food, celebrities, or anything else we deal with in reality. Unless you accept the notion that there's something uncomfortable, and "dirty" about sexuality that makes it something to AVOID talking about, there's not much of a reason to single out those sorts of mnemonics as something you want to see censored.

In short, for those that might support having these stories removed ... consider your motivation. There's something about the old-world, Victorian era mentality about our naughty parts that's lingering in your head ... and repeated exposure to the reality of sex makes you uncomfortable. That's fine. That's you, and it's your choice whether or not you want to make use of those stories or not.

Trying to make a case for why that uncomfortableness should be inflicted on everyone else, however, is not something that jives with me.





I'd be willing to put support behind a "NSFW" tag on stories, so that people can voluntarily warn others. This way, anyone that's really living in the year 1600 can opt to filter those out. Let's not, however, place any more importance on the "report" button. We don't need to start a witch hunt on anything that doesn't meet with the Bureau of Morality's approval.

Let it be up to the author whether or not content is particularly offensive, and the reader whether or not he/she wishes to read it. Don't turn the community into a group police effort, however.

It takes maybe a second or two of brief skimming to understand what the content of the story is about. I don't really buy the notion that this fraction of a moment that it takes to determine that you don't want to finish reading a story is so incredible a burden to shoulder, that you would literally need to "hide" the stories from view. If you can't endure contact with imagery of this nature for even a split second ... it's probably not even safe for you to go outside.

I doubt this is the case, but I think I've made my point. I don't think it would be wise to inflict a site-wide censorship change to remove minimal "discomforts" from a vocal minority.



I'd also kind of like to express a pet peeve of mine, regarding the misuse of the English word "perverted."

"Perverted" does NOT mean anything sexual in nature, though a lot of prudish people tend to use it in that way. A "perversion," by definition, must describe something absolutely twisted, abnormal, and completely skewed from anything approaching normality ... it doesn't even necessarily need to be sexual in nature. Things like bestiality, pedophilia, and necrophilia are "perversions."

People talking about erections, breasts, and specific porn stars in theirs stories ... well, a few may not like it, and a lot of them are certainly rather lazy and without imagination ... but it doesn't come anywhere close to being "perverted." It's just sexually charged.

What's more, there are certain kanji that completely lend themselves to imagery that's difficult to avoid. I'm talking about characters like 奴 (guy), 叔 (uncle), and 架 (erect).

Why fight what makes the most sense, simply to adhere to an imagined set of rules regarding what you're "allowed" to think about?


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - ファブリス - 2008-01-03

There was a related discussion "尺 A better primitive?" about the famous shakuhachi Wink Maybe it's best to continue the debate on sexually suggestive stories on that thread.


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - Virtua_Leaf - 2008-01-03

meolox Wrote:Heisig does say in the intro that you can "shock, disgust" the mind to make a story stick so I see no problem with them, I have to say I'm sure everyone else was thinking what I was thinking when I first came across Uncle 叔.
Ahaha. Though I use a different little nephew, not myself.

One of my favourites had to be for the kanji 'teach': When your taskmistress is asking "Who's your daddy?" she's sort of teaching you a lesson in Filial Piety.' - Credit to whoever came up with it!


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - wrightak - 2008-01-03

I don't have any problem with them at all. I would have a problem though if I thought there might be young people accessing the site. But I think that these users will be very rare, if they exist at all.

It might be helpful if people put a few words at the start of their stories saying "may offend" or something. People who like these kind of stories could then actively search for them and people who don't like them can move onto the next story without reading.

Although people can probably already do this by ignoring the stories that have been reported.


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - Biene - 2008-01-03

Some of those stories I found helpful, but most of them I just find annoying and not helpful at all. It's true that Heisig said "shocking and disgusting" might be very helpful for remembering the kanji, but to be franc, the shocking and disgusting stories that play with sexual oriented pictures are quite boring after the umpteen times. "Shocking and disgusting" does not mean it always has to do with sex, neh?

I like DrJones's idea for helping with this "problem", but I guess it would be not worth the additional trouble for Fabrice. Even though Stehr also made a good point regarding the age of possible users of this site.

Anyways, I'll stay in the camp of the Victorian-minded-people and continue to scan past stories that don't help me (which aren't always of the perverted kind).


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - billyclyde - 2008-01-03

@dukelexon,

Erect = erector set

Uncle = my actual uncle, playing golf

Guy = fair enough, but the shared story can be suggestive, not graphic.

You're making a lot of assumptions about what's unavoidable, or what's the first thing that will come to someone's mind based on what comes to your mind. (OMG! He said "come"!) You're also making a big assumption about how reasonable your own standards are. Just because someone finds these things offensive or unpleasant doesn't mean they're Victorian, or have "arbitrary" religious belefs, or live in 1600. You may certainly write whatever stories you wish, but sharing them in an open forum necessarily affects the tone of that forum. Urban Europeans have far different moral standards than urban Malaysians, or urban Texans, and all are quite modern.

For what it's worth, by most Western standards, everyday Japanese life is quite prudish.

Also, users may be far less rare than everyone thinks. They may be reluctant to speak up about it in an internet forum when the (vocal) consensus is that perverted stories are no big deal. No one wants to look like, or be labeled, a prude, and a pet peeve of mine is how Internet life always goes to LCD.

I for one would not let my kids use this site.


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - meolox - 2008-01-03

This is simple, how much perversion can text portray?

What Adult finds any of the "perverted" stories offensive, really how perverted can they be when they are an imaginary product of the mind, the mind remembers things by creating connections and if you connect a kanji to a particuarly vivid image involving sex/murder/incest then so be it, let's be honest these things are thought about everyday by normal and moral people and are often strongly engrained in the mind so if you "place" a kanji among these thoughts you're more likely to remember it.

How can you be prudish or easily offended by these stories if you are then you're doing yourself and others an injustice by wanted them to be censored, in the end it comes down to vivid imagery creates a fixed image in the mind, and saying this site is inappropriate for children, maybe, but inappropriate for women, hardly. A primitive that could be used is "dominatrix", is this degrading to men, no. Bring on the perverted stories as long as their based in fiction.

By the way excuse the tone of the prior text, we're all friends right Smile


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - Transtic - 2008-01-03

I agree that sex is a part of life (even including the worst perversions, the are just as real as war or G.Bush), but I respect people thinking that little kids and sensitive people don't need to be exposed against their will to this.

I think that this is a very-easy-to-solve problem. Just put an option on everyone's profile like "I'm under 14 and don't want to be exposed to sexual content" and a button on the Study section like "Sexual or offending content included". Then you filter the stories according to the user's profile and that's all. Of course, such an option should be compulsory for newcomers to this site.

That way, everyone is under their own responsability. If a little kid choses the "adult" profile... well, if they want sexual content they'lll find it here or anywhere else, so you can't blame the site. And if you don't want sexual content, you have the option to avoid it at all (given that everybody uses the "adult only" button on their stories).


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - mhaellix - 2008-01-03

I agree with Transtic, an option to not be exposed to sexual content will be good. I recommended this site to a couple of 15 year olds when I was just starting out. But quickly saw some of the stuff and decided to discourage them from using this site. As for me, I just try to ignore them.

I know they're responsible for their own decisions (whether to ignore it or not) but I don't want their parents to hunt me down especially since I work for the church.


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - Codexus - 2008-01-03

I find "perverted" stories to be quite effective too. That's just how the human mind works, we get curious and interested when a story is about sex. So I'm grateful to the people who share those stories. But I agree that it would be great if they could be flagged so that a younger audience or people who don't like them can enjoy this site too.


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - ファブリス - 2008-01-03

Frankly I don't see the point in sharing any kind of emotionally loaded stories, be it sexual content or anything else. There are plenty of really excellent stories already which don't need to use any sensible content, and work very well. Unless talking about universal themes like love, death etc, chances are most of those stories make a mental impression only on the author, and do little that any other "regular" story couldn't do.

It's not a question of freedom of expression or what is acceptable and what is not. The study area is a public place to share stories, and you are also a host when you post stories there. Why ruin the party for other people? If you feel you really have to post stories which you know are potentially offensive to other readers, I'm sorry but I feel this is a lack of consideration for others.


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - timcampbell - 2008-01-03

There's nothing wrong, per se, with "perverted" stories. I've created several myself and they are among the most easily recalled, for whatever psychological reasons. And since the purpose of RTK and this site is to create memorable stories, then often a bit of perversion goes a long way. The kanji for 'uncle' is an obvious one.

The question is really about posting them on the site for all to see. When I see a story that goes a bit too far (for my taste) I just skip it. But not everyone has my high level of tolerance, and I don't expect them to. This is a problem I encounter every day at work as a newspaper editor: It's not about moral judgments or prudishness, it's not about right or wrong, it's about deciding whether or not something is appropriate for a particular audience. The people who read my newspaper are prepared for, and can accept, a certain kind of content. Those who are reading Playboy, or the National Enquirer, or the New Yorker, all have different expectations, none of which are wrong by themselves. Content is only wrong if it's in the wrong publication.

I wouldn't want to see censorship of any stories. One great thing about this site is how we all throw our ideas in together and each person can grab what they feel is useful, "perverted" or otherwise. We have to accept, however, that this site is publicly accessible to anyone, and that all of us learning RTK have different levels of tolerance for graphic materials. It would seem to me, then, that some kind of flag, or toggle switch, could benefit a number of people, whichever way it was designed.

We can't determine how many people would turn away from the site because of the "perverted" stories. Hopefully they just skip over them. But I would hate to think of someone missing out on the potential of this great site because of the sexually graphic nature of some of the stories.


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - ivoSF - 2008-01-03

i do like mine invention for the "anti" kanji
its hentai kamen the anti hero.
very few people probaly know this manga, its not hentai, but more a parody of an anti hero who gets very powerfull after puting a "certain item" on his head, i think you need to be a bit perverted to apriciate the humor in it.


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - romanrozhok - 2008-01-03

radical_tyro Wrote:For some (most?) of us, perverted stories only help to make it more memorable. If you have a problem with them, simply don't use them. Use whatever story you wish or even better, make your own.
like i said, i will continue to use them. i'm just wondering what other people have to say about them. i am not THAT bothered by it, i like them, it's just there are so many of them and i'm worried it may loose its sticking ability.

DrJones Wrote:I don't particularly enjoy these stories, as I found most of them useless, but I do understand that some people's humor is defined by high levels of offensive content (that's why things like American Pie sell well), and that in order to study 2000+ kanji you must have fun.

I thought yesterday the following solution. The report button is used to mark stories that appear on Heisig, but I've seen it being used to mark naughty stories, too. The site could implement a filter that hides the entries that have X bad reports (X being adjustable), as does Youtube and some discussion boards I've seen. By adjusting the filter, I won't have to read stories featuring Rocco Siffriedi if I don't want to, while allowing other users to read that kind of stories.
oh? the X's are for stories that appear on heisig? i thought it was just to mark stories that are irrelevant or something. that's what i have been doing.

dukelexon Wrote:I'll assume by the word "perverted" you're simply referring to sexually suggestive stories. To be honest ... I don't think there are ENOUGH of them, considering how powerful a tool they are. I have yet to fail a card with a kanji that I've used "titillating" images for ... and I've got a whole lot of them. Playing to my libido is a surefire way to strengthen recall, for me. The hormones really engrave the image in my mind.

So, why complain about them? There's only one reason, and it's always the same. I think we all know what I'm referring to.

The simple truth is ... if you remove arbitrary codes of religious morality out of the equation, there wouldn't be anything particularly remarkable about suggestive stories ... certainly nothing to make a complaint over. They would just be one of the many genres of short narratives that we've accumulated here, with nothing in particular to distinguish them over stories that include mention of food, celebrities, or anything else we deal with in reality. Unless you accept the notion that there's something uncomfortable, and "dirty" about sexuality that makes it something to AVOID talking about, there's not much of a reason to single out those sorts of mnemonics as something you want to see censored.

In short, for those that might support having these stories removed ... consider your motivation. There's something about the old-world, Victorian era mentality about our naughty parts that's lingering in your head ... and repeated exposure to the reality of sex makes you uncomfortable. That's fine. That's you, and it's your choice whether or not you want to make use of those stories or not.

Trying to make a case for why that uncomfortableness should be inflicted on everyone else, however, is not something that jives with me.





I'd be willing to put support behind a "NSFW" tag on stories, so that people can voluntarily warn others. This way, anyone that's really living in the year 1600 can opt to filter those out. Let's not, however, place any more importance on the "report" button. We don't need to start a witch hunt on anything that doesn't meet with the Bureau of Morality's approval.

Let it be up to the author whether or not content is particularly offensive, and the reader whether or not he/she wishes to read it. Don't turn the community into a group police effort, however.

It takes maybe a second or two of brief skimming to understand what the content of the story is about. I don't really buy the notion that this fraction of a moment that it takes to determine that you don't want to finish reading a story is so incredible a burden to shoulder, that you would literally need to "hide" the stories from view. If you can't endure contact with imagery of this nature for even a split second ... it's probably not even safe for you to go outside.

I doubt this is the case, but I think I've made my point. I don't think it would be wise to inflict a site-wide censorship change to remove minimal "discomforts" from a vocal minority.



I'd also kind of like to express a pet peeve of mine, regarding the misuse of the English word "perverted."

"Perverted" does NOT mean anything sexual in nature, though a lot of prudish people tend to use it in that way. A "perversion," by definition, must describe something absolutely twisted, abnormal, and completely skewed from anything approaching normality ... it doesn't even necessarily need to be sexual in nature. Things like bestiality, pedophilia, and necrophilia are "perversions."

People talking about erections, breasts, and specific porn stars in theirs stories ... well, a few may not like it, and a lot of them are certainly rather lazy and without imagination ... but it doesn't come anywhere close to being "perverted." It's just sexually charged.

What's more, there are certain kanji that completely lend themselves to imagery that's difficult to avoid. I'm talking about characters like 奴 (guy), 叔 (uncle), and 架 (erect).

Why fight what makes the most sense, simply to adhere to an imagined set of rules regarding what you're "allowed" to think about?
your post is too long and i only had to read the intro to get the gist of it so i did not bother reading the rest. but once again, i am in favor of the sexual stories, its just that sometimes i come across a new kanzi to learn and the primitives will be like "finger...crotch (made up)" and i will be like.."ohhh boy lets see what the RTK folks have to say about THESE radicals" lol.

wrightak Wrote:I don't have any problem with them at all. I would have a problem though if I thought there might be young people accessing the site. But I think that these users will be very rare, if they exist at all.

It might be helpful if people put a few words at the start of their stories saying "may offend" or something. People who like these kind of stories could then actively search for them and people who don't like them can move onto the next story without reading.

Although people can probably already do this by ignoring the stories that have been reported.
yeah I agree, kids accessing this site could be a problem, but then again the chances are very low. however, if there was a young kid who was interested in kanzi and i wanted to help him/her i would like to recommend RTK (which is difficult to use without this site) but as we know, his/her mom would not be very thrilled at the idea. "may offend" is a good idea. i think i will start using that.

Biene Wrote:Some of those stories I found helpful, but most of them I just find annoying and not helpful at all. It's true that Heisig said "shocking and disgusting" might be very helpful for remembering the kanji, but to be franc, the shocking and disgusting stories that play with sexual oriented pictures are quite boring after the umpteen times. "Shocking and disgusting" does not mean it always has to do with sex, neh?

I like DrJones's idea for helping with this "problem", but I guess it would be not worth the additional trouble for Fabrice. Even though Stehr also made a good point regarding the age of possible users of this site.

Anyways, I'll stay in the camp of the Victorian-minded-people and continue to scan past stories that don't help me (which aren't always of the perverted kind).
i agree. some stories are just made "Sexual" when there are better connections to be made.

billyclyde Wrote:@dukelexon,
I for one would not let my kids use this site.
haha me neither (if i had them). but its a shame, because RTK is such a good way to learn...

ファブリス Wrote:Frankly I don't see the point in sharing any kind of emotionally loaded stories, be it sexual content or anything else. There are plenty of really excellent stories already which don't need to use any sensible content, and work very well. Unless talking about universal themes like love, death etc, chances are most of those stories make a mental impression only on the author, and do little that any other "regular" story couldn't do.

It's not a question of freedom of expression or what is acceptable and what is not. The study area is a public place to share stories, and you are also a host when you post stories there. Why ruin the party for other people? If you feel you really have to post stories which you know are potentially offensive to other readers, I'm sorry but I feel this is a lack of consideration for others.
this is like... exactly what the goal of my post is. faburisu can just convey it much better. =)

i don't really care what you guys think is "perverted" or how its affect by social or religious pressures (i for one, am not religious and do not care what they say). I'm just trying to say that as i hit past the half way mark, there are more and more cases of sexual stories that seem to be out of place, useless, and not helpful for my learning of kanzi.

thanks for all your replies.


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - romanrozhok - 2008-01-03

btw, radical_tyro, you go to cornell? i live in ithaca and go to IC lol


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - revenantkioku - 2008-01-03

Nope. The more messed up, the more they stick in my mind. When I find a story didn't stick, I try a completely disturbing one and then it's done for good.
You don't want to know my story for "with child." :O
Cornell? Ithica? Lawl, I lived in Rochester for 6 years or so before moving to Japan. Don't miss that area too much. Except for garbage plates. Me wants a garbage plate. Sad


anyone else sick of perverted stories? - radical_tyro - 2008-01-03

revenantkioku Wrote:Nope. The more messed up, the more they stick in my mind.
I completely agree. Say you're walking down the street. What would stick in your memory the longest: (a) an ordinary person, (b) a person in a clown outfit, © a beautiful naked human of your desired gender? It's no surprise that the more ridiculous our stories are; sexually loaded or "perverted" even, the better we recall them. Note that the story doesn't even need to be "clever" most of the time. You'll find this advice in many books on memory too. I've benefitted immensely from a number of shared stories some would find "offensive" or "perverted". I guess to make everyone happy, a "rated R" vote button and optional filter sounds good.

@romanrozhok & revenantkioku: Yeah I just moved to Ithaca to get my PhD in theoretical physics at Cornell. I don't care for the area so much, especially in the winter. Can't wait to get back to Japan!