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I kind of have one on the Japanese side, though I don't think they really meant any disrespect.
I have black hair and pale skin, but I'm not Asian. Every time I went somewhere in Japan, people would let out a slight scream (or a big scream occasionally) when I turned towards them, since people often mistook me for Japanese from the back. Sometimes people would just stare at me in shock when I was walking on the street, or say things like "That foreigner has black hair!", thinking I couldn't understand. I've also had Japanese people I've met online outright refuse to believe I have black hair, until I started pointing out black-haired movie actors as examples.^-^;
Also, Japanese people I meet offline tend to comment about my hair color being "so rare", and ask me about my ancestry after a while. I've never been as conscious of my hair color as I have been around Japanese people..
Most Japanese movies seem to like showing blonde American characters, so I guess they might think that Americans are mostly blonde.
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How about some foreigners' inability to read signs even when written in English or just lacking common sense in Japan?
I remember being at a shrine (Fushimi Inari-taisha I think?) and there were a lot of foreigners. There was a medium-sized building that a few people were standing in front of. I'm fairly sure there was a sign posted on the side with the entrance to the building saying "do not enter", because I remember being completely dumbfounded when I saw the guy just waltz right in with his camera.
Also at the arcade I visited a lot (a-cho in Kyoto), the top floor is dedicated to music games. There was a game Dance Evolution that was front and center when you turned the corner after climbing the stairs. It's a game where you use your full body to dance, so it's understandable that it can be embarrassing to have a video of yourself taken. There's a sign that clearly says "no taking pictures or videos without permission". Some random foreigner strolls into the place with his camera in hand, takes a lap around the place, and then stand off to the side directly in front of the sign filming some people playing the Dance Evolution game. He didn't say a single word to them either.
It's kinda frustrating. Not entering a place at a shrine where NO ONE ELSE IS despite there being a crowd, should be a no brainer that you should not go in. The game one annoys me because it just feels disrespectful even if the sign wasn't there (most likely not intentionally, but still disrespectful in my opinion. Kind of like those people who take random pictures of people to post on the internet).
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I was listening to a podcast the other day about "Back from my trip to Japan" and it mentionned how Chinese tourists can be a handful and would be obnoxious, loud, sit on the floor, eat, spit, smoke -- all at the same time in the middle of a mall where you aren't supposed to do any of those things.
The podcaster's wife also remarked how mini-skirts are super normal and widespread there (when it's not for us) but on the opposite low cut tops are avoided (when it's not for us). (The podcasters went there during summer).
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Nice! These are all super interesting! And kinda unbelievable :O
That seems so frustrating though; despite the rude behaviour of the tourists, Japanese people can't really do anything about it. I know that Japanese culture is more reserved and all about 'reading the air' but still. How do they stop that kind of behaviour from spreading?
Also Japanese people talking about black hair being rare xD When literally every single one of them has natural black hair wow
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A friend of mine who used to teach in a Japanese school was given a charming picture of herself drawn by a fellow teacher. It was a kind of anime portrait of her, only she has black hair (is in fact of Lebanese descent) while the picture showed her with yellow blonde hair. I think Japanese people may often "re-write" foreigners in their minds as blonde.
A lot of people assume that I will speak English (I never do in Japan). I don't think that they necessarily think I am American. I have been in tourist centers where Italians and Russians talk to Japanese staff in English. Nearly always in most parts of the world, whenever two people from different non-English-speaking countries converse it is in English. However little English each knows it is usually the only language they both know a bit of. So the assumption that one speaks English is not that unreasonable.
However I also meet older Japanese people who really can't believe that Japanese spoken slowly and clearly cannot be understood by any human being. I like those people!
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Mostly, I misread your response. Sigh.
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I still wouldn't think his hair was black in that photograph...
To my mind, black hair is the natural color of hair among Africans, Latinos, Native Americans and Asians and appears very, very rarely among most of those of European descent, although quite a bit more frequently in Mediterranean countries.
Regardless of how dark hair is, if it reflects with golden or orangey highlights, to my mind it's dark brown. If it reflects with bluish or purplish highlights, it's black. (Dyed hair notwithstanding, where it can actually be blue or purple. I don't think there's any natural hair color that reflects bluish or purplish that isn't really deeply and unmistakably black.)
Even so, Daniel's hair is -substantially- paler than many (including my own father, which is dark, -dark- brown and maybe is part of why I'm sensitive to the difference between black and brown).
I'm also mildly colorblind (the mildest of the red-green colorblind types. They used to call it 'red-green earthtone colorblind' back in the day but now I guess it has a number). In order to make up for that color deficiency also I'm particularly sensitive to tiny color differences as a result as constantly striving to discern right up to the very limits of my physical ability to do so. (Of course it's futile when you get into certain color ranges, but in hair colors those colors I have trouble with only appear in the range people call 'auburn'. The brighter reds and the truer browns are no problem, and other hair colors are completely unrelated to my color deficiency. Again, excepting hair dye...)
But regarding color perception, I wonder if the Japanese perceive a whole range of paler browns as being 'blonde' hair... there isn't, after all, any real difference between pale blonde and chestnut brown other than depth of shade (though there are various amounts of redness that can also be mixed in). That would help account for the 'all foreigners are blonde' perception.
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Hmm, dunno. I'm an American and I've lived in Japan for 7+ years, but I've never noticed much difference between how Japanese and Americans interpret hair color.
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The thread "Japanese 'politeness levels'" on this forum contains a glorious amount of misunderstandings about Japanese culture